these ties that bind

idk why, but i want to share something about my brother in law, i told u, idk why.
well, oh hes a white,-*continue reading i suppose*
actually i guess its more about my sister!
theres something about her that i adore so much tho shes been thru a lot especially in her marriage life..not to blame on my brother in law..its more what my father did.

well..im taking few minutes filling this gap.

erm,,talking about my sister,my father was so proud of her, she went studying overseas and thats where she met her husband,jason reynolds, converted name as gabriel mustaqem reynolds ali,im the only one calls him abang jason- the funny thing about that is, everytime im fetching him at the airport i will yell abang jason!, and those ppl who are waiting,surely they will look at me and i guess they might think...what the hell this boy is talking, but its cool,while my siblings call him abang muz or mus.oh i just remembered, early this year we went to my brothers beach apartment in PD..i was giving the direction to him-i was already at the place( he drove my family-my brother,2 other sisters,my mom,nieces and nephews as well his own family to the apartment, the apartment's name was bayu something, i didnt know that he was coming and was on the phone, i spoke in Malay and i said bayu...,bayu...bayu sengal,because he didnt hear what i said tho ive repeated it on phone many times,i thought he was my brother!,) so he said to my mum, the place that i was staying at was BAYU SENGAL..and everybody was having a major fun laughing on board..haha..thats what i heard from the family...
I was living with them before for almost 4 months in perth,somewhere in 2006 after finishing my SPM exam in 2005.
its just a small house,oh its home to me, i think for them too.but i enjoyed every second of it,knowing my sister as well the new member of the family.see, why i said knowing my sister?because she went overseas when i was a little kid,i was 10 or 11 i guess, i didnt spend much time with her as well growing up together because she was raised by my late Opah until she was 16 or 17 something,as i said earlier, what ive been told from my other siblings, my father was very strict with her,unlike me,my father never scolded me or even get mad tho im the evil in the family, may be being the youngest does make a difference,i guess.
oh yeh, she was raised like she was living in an army family,there were times my father sat with her for hours just to make sure she finished up all the homework and get ready for the SPM.
and i didnt know that my father did make a promise to his friend, haji bakar(the wealthiest friend of father's) to marry my sister to his well educated son, but my sister didnt know it as well, just like a drama that uve seen on telly, my sister came back with his boyfriend which now her husband and a dad to her cute little kiddo,of course you are cute-youre mixed!
idk if its true, but i guess my father never liked him,idk,,,i guess yes because my father promised to give my sister a bungalow that we used to live in section 7 before we moved out to PJ, when my sister get married, im not saying that by not giving the house makes my father less to like him or my sister,but he promised it once my sister is married, i guess u know what i meant...and until now after years and years nothing happens,now my sister and her family are moving temporarily to the Philippines, because my brother in law is a transfer teacher, teaching english in the rural areas..its hardly enough to see them.she moved there without having second guessing,it was like there was nothing left for her here tho shes loved by every1 in the family.

well, my father and my sister are now hardly speak to each other tho she was my father's favourite daughter despite how he raised her.

well,ermm you are loved by everyone sis.i love u, we all love u.best regards.